Most people get married with the intention of it lasting.  They want to believe that love can last forever and set out to make it happen. Why is it, then, that so many people tend to find themselves going through a divorce? Despite how much we may want things to have worked out, they often end in things going sour more often than not, and two people going their separate ways.  However, when you look at the couples who have remained together the longest and continue to have successful relationships, there are patterns of behavior which they share in common.  If you have been wondering what it takes for a…